How Many Of My Characters Have Traits Or Personalities Of Real People I Know

On Facebook, a question was posed to me: How many of your characters have traits or personalities of “real” people you know?

Let me take the long way around to answer that question.

Often at autographings, after I’ve thanked a reader for coming to the bookstore to meet me, shaken her hand, signed her books, given her a pen, she says, “You’re so nice!” Invariably, she sounds surprised.

And I think, What did she think I would be like?

Then I think back to the time before Facebook, before Twitter, before the internet, before I had dared to write a word, knew nothing about publishing and had never met an author, and I think … Ohhhh.

She thought I would be An Author.

An Author: Someone who has a muse, lives in some exotic foreign locale, preferably someplace windswept and romantic, travels the world signing books on glamorous book tours, has an editor weeping over her work and handsome lovers hanging on her every word (when she deigns to meet them), types her manuscripts on paper on a typewriter and — this is the cool part — writes only when she is inspired and then gets so involved in the story she forgets to eat.

And I want to tell this lovely reader (who I adore for coming to meet me) that I have NEVER IN MY LIFE forgotten to eat. But I don’t, because there’s a pretty good chance she’s going to go home, get on the internet, and find out the truth.

She might stumble upon the blog about my book tour and think, “Hey! That’s not glamorous!”

Or she might follow me on TikTok where I talk about, not the exotic restaurants in which I’m dining, but what I’m fixing for dinner.

Or she might find me in a video posed in front of a stack of toilet paper, or on Facebook quoting, not Shakespeare, but Julia Child. (“Always remember: If you’re alone in the kitchen and you drop the lamb, you can always just pick it up. Who’s going to know?”)

Or she might hit my website and read my article on writing which say nothing about muses or lovers or getting swept away in a story, but are prosaic and seem to indicate that writing is a job like any other and involves mostly putting your butt in the chair and working.

Sooner or later, she’s going to think, Christina Dodd isn’t An Author! She lives in Washington state with her husband who she’s been married to since the earth’s crust cooled, has two kids and two dogs, likes to visit DisneyWorld, complains about PMS and hates to exercise. In fact, Christina Dodd is An Imposter because she sort of reminds me of … me.


Okay, so back to that Facebook question: How many of your characters have traits or personalities of “real” people you know?

If I wrote a book about A Fictional Author, it would be interesting because she would have a muse, live in an exotic locale, have handsome lovers, etc, etc. But a book about a real author? Like me? Can you imagine anything more boring? People would line up around the block not to buy it!

So … there’s the long answer to the question.

Here’s the short answer: Real normal people have moments where they’re brilliant, anguished, fascinating, tormented, humorous, aroused, glamorous, but for the most part, we’re all sort of, well, don’t take this wrong … we’re boring.

And thank God, I say, because I’ve had times in my life that were tumultuous, and you know what? It always involved unemployment or marital problems or health issues or kid problems or money problems or combinations of all of them.

The Chinese have a curse: “May you live in interesting times.” My heroes and heroines live in interesting times involving murder and the search for justice, and every interesting time I’ve lived through thoroughly sucked. So hugs to you who are living in interesting times. May you come through on the other end and join the those of us who (thankfully) live in the Land of Boring.

…Sorry, times are tough right now and I got sort of waylaid there for a minute…

The short answer to the question How many of your characters have traits or personalities of “real” people you know? is: I write suspense. I write thrillers. I write romance. I want mystique! Excitement! Adventure! Angst! In other words, no matter whether I’m writing suspense, paranormal or historical romance, I need to sell books. So I don’t model my characters on real people.

I have a rule against putting my readers into a coma.

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Take a tour of my office, watch The Husband use a chainsaw to make tree pots, and see the stone circle surrounded by lavender and listen to the bees humming.

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